Christmas, 1977
On December 9, 1977 I arrived home from work… and left my heart at the door. I was sure my apartment had been robbed. As I walked room to room, furniture was missing. So many things were gone, there were some things I didn’t realize were missing until much later. However, things began to take on a different tone, when I walked into a small room where our new, 3-day-old huge, round bed was supposed to have been, and was now gone.
My worst fears were confirmed when I opened the closet doors finding only my clothes and none of my (first) wife’s. She was gone. My stomach turned. I didn’t know what to do. Everything felt terrible. Questions of why kept popping up. I know that early that evening, I went to bed hugging a Bible my mom had gifted me upon graduating from high school two years earlier. I prayed, “God, I don’t know or understand anything in this book, but please help me.” I tried reading through it but couldn’t understand anything. I wondered if what I read wee things that had already happened or were happening there and then. I cried myself to sleep wishing next morning things would be different, but they weren’t.
I jumped on my bike and headed to my parents in the 20 degree weather and told them all that had happened. Mom couldn’t believe it. My father, though, said to her, “I told you, I told you something like that was up and was going to happen.” Needless to say, I felt horrible. I felt lonely and confused. I was embarrassed especially the following week around my five older brothers and their wives when they arrived at my parents’ home for a Christmas dinner. I really felt like I was a failure compared to them.
Time moved very slowly during those days, especially as they dragged into months. Throughout the pain, the heartaches, the loneliness, and the confusion, God was there though I didn’t know it.
The heavenly Father knows all-too well what loneliness is. He knows hurt. He understands rejection. He lived through (Jesus) rejection and betrayal. Every pain you and I have ever felt or experienced, Jesus knows and lived through as well.
As you dry your tears and as you blow your nose, Jesus is right there beside you sharing in it. As you shake and wonder why over and over, He’s there feeling all the hurt and anger you feel. You’re not alone. For tender or painful moments like these, He came to reassure us of His presence and involvement in our lives.
Just as He put a rainbow in the skies after the flood to assure us it would never happen again; He gave us a most-definite assurance through way of a sign of His companionship: His Name:
Emmanuel, God with Us. To show He knows our pain and confusion, The Counsellor. To remove the chaos within us, The Prince of Peace. When we’re dealing with oppression, suicidal thoughts, or other demonic activity, He’s The Mighty God. When we need the reassurance or confirmation that He’s not just “passing through,” but here for the long haul, He’s The Everlasting Father.
Yes, Christmas is more than gifts, lights, meals, snow, reindeer, elves, and Santa. It’s about Christ the Savior of the world living with us and within us. Whether your marriage is on the rocks, almost over, or you’re going through some real tough things, God’s here for you this Christmas Day. This good news can be summed up in another of God’s great Name, Wonderful (Isaiah 9:6). I can attest that He can turn your life around like He did mine! He showed me the way out of the pain and the bad memories through His unconditional and unrelenting love.
God Bless!
Merry Christmas!
Sam

Time Heals All Wounds And Memories

Christmas Shopping

I remember the many years going Christmas shopping with my parents.  In the early years it was for toys for cousins, brothers, and nephews.  As we grew older, we shopped for clothing.  I remember the cold and the winds beating upon us as my brother and I waited for our parents in front of a building stoop on Moore Street.  My parents would return loaded with gifts, drop them off into a large box we had, and then return for more.  One time, we probably waited two hours all bundled up. We then had to walk home lugging the loaded box.

At home, the coats, scarves, boots, and gloves came off.  The nice heat from the radiator warmed us up.  We’d have hot chocolate while our parents had coffee.  The gifts were then wrapped, labeled, and placed under our tree.

Thousands of years ago, God went shopping.  In fact, He’s been trying to get us back to Him since Adam and Eve sinned, but we have rejected Him ever since. He’s sent prophets, kings, and judges, but we’ve rejected them all.  Two thousand years ago He sent His Perfect Son to look for us poor lost souls.  In spite of the cold, the snow, the ice, the frost, the wind, and the sin that thwarted man from making his way to God, Jesus searched for just the right gift to take home to the Father. The Godhead concluded All of humanity deserved being taken back to the Father.

And so, Jesus paid our ransomed price!  The cost was not cash, credit cards, bars of gold, silver, or even crypto!  The cost called for perfect, untainted blood- an impossible price for man to pay, but God in His infinite wisdom was able to pull it off through Jesus’s life and perfect blood; untainted by sin. The Perfect Lamb of God, Jesus, through the virgin birth, entered humanity but without sin. 

Thirty-three years later, He laid His life on the cross after saying, “I’ll take them all” (John 3:16). And so, He died for us all taking our souls to the tree and nailing us and our sinful nature to the cross.  He then presented us to the Father. 

However, not everyone wants to be wrapped in the blood of Christ! Not everyone wants to be presented as a gift to God! Some people think they’re too good-they think they can make it on their own-but they CAN’T DO IT!  And others think they’re not good enough.  They think He doesn’t want them.  But you’re the perfect gift for the Father!  He loves you unconditionally!  That means YOU are precious to Him No Matter What you’ve done or where you’ve been! Give yourself to Him, He’s made you righteous through Christ.                       

“For as by one man’s disobedience many were made sinners, so by the obedience of one shall many be made righteous” (Romans 5:19).               

This Christmas, will you place yourself under the tree?  Will you lay down your life as a sacrifice to God (Romans 12:1)?  God has a new name for you (Revelation 2:17)-might even be scripted on a stocking hanging on His fireplace…

Merry Christmas!                                                                             Sam

Christmas Time

  • I love Christmas colors of red, green, and gold Against a backdrop of white; I’m sold! Love the bells and Christmas balls,
  • The crisp fresh air as snow lightly falls! I love the trinkets and items of old, They calm my nerves, let it be told!
  • Sparkling lights glimmer signs of hope, Lifting my spirits, helping me cope. My tree they infuse with serenity and calm It’s truly therapeutic; what a balm!
  • I love the cold outside And the warmth from the fireside Sweet smells of apple and cinnamon Beckon people to stop by and come in!
  • Christmastime is unequalled in beauty! With blizzards and snowstorms in all their fury. Warmth, coziness, family and friends, Timeless memories that’ll never end.
  • Antique décor of years gone by Pull my heart and cause me to cry Tears of joy and satisfaction; Of Christmastime gatherings Amidst all the distraction.
  • Wonderful colors reminiscent of Christ’s birth, Who left heaven’s glory for this fallen earth. Red for His blood, green for renewed life, Gold for His crown of victory over death! White for the purity of all that it’s worth!
  • I love the silence that envelopes me As snow-swirls dance forever free! Christmastime is here! With Christ, there’s nothing to fear!

Merry Christmas!
Sam

Christmas 1964

Our apartment on Flushing Avenue in Brooklyn was very small. Our bedroom was adjacent to the living room. It had no door, only a heavy curtain. On this particular Christmas eve, somewhere around 10:30 at night, I kept hearing banging and metal pieces clanging. I called Mom to see what the fuss was. I told her I heard what sounded like my brother Ruben, a cousin…“Shh, Santa needs some help,” she said. WOW! Could you believe that? After much more clanging and voices of my dad and a cousin or two, my brother and I were allowed to see what was going on. “Santa” had delivered my all-metal blue jeep pedal-car with a bright yellow star in the middle of the hood! I was allowed to try it out back and forth in the tiny living room. Soon afterwards, we were snoring again anxiously awaiting Christmas morning. When it arrived, it wasn’t a dream! Everything that had happened was real. Along with many other gifts, my jeep was parked there under our tree!

Many Christmases ago, in a manger, laid baby Jesus. No gifts were there other than One for the whole world: The King of the universe! Other than His parents, His only visitors were shepherds that, while out in the fields keeping watch over their lambs, like me, heard fussing and noises that night. Suddenly, they beheld the glorious angelic announcement of His birth from an angelic chorus worshipping the new King in song and praise! With excitement, the shepherds headed to the manger near the inn to behold the tiny king who was born to save the world. It wasn’t a dream! He was there as real as the angels said! They headed out to tell everyone what they had witnessed (Luke 2:8-20)! It was a marvelous first Christmas!
Merry Christmas!
Sam

Stiff!
It was 1968 and the “big guys,” David & Junior, two and four years my senior, had gone off to our elementary school yard for a softball game and I had been invited. I’ve never cared for baseball, but first I needed to go with my mom to buy some dungarees. We went to our usual store, Boel, on Moore St. Mom was upset at the price increase! We probably bought a pair of Mavericks for a whopping $1.66-outrages! It was “highway robbery,” we used to say! I asked mom, “So, how much do they usually cost?” She said something like $1.00 or $1.25. All I know is we went home and I changed and ran to the schoolyard.
Getting there was tougher than usual. The pants were stiff! These were tough denim, and this was before anyone thought of pre-washing them. Besides, I needed to get to the game. At the game, I didn’t do too well: I dropped a high-fly and I threw to the wrong base or didn’t tag a runner. It must’ve been the pants… As usual, David came over, put his arm around me and told me it was ok cause in the end, we won anyway. That was always David, sympathetic, compassionate.
One day, Jesus was on His way with many of His disciples to a city called Nain. Nearing the gate, of the city he saw….”a dead man carried out, the only son of his mother, and she was a widow; and much people of the city was with her. And when the Lord saw her, he had compassion on her, and said unto her, Weep not. And he came and touched the bier: and they that bare him stood still. And he said, young man, I say unto thee, arise. And he that was dead sat up and began to speak, and he delivered him to his mother” (Luke 7:12-15).
I’m sure both mom and son, as well as everyone present had lots to talk about on their way home!
Like my friend David, Jesus had compassion on a ‘stiff’ and raised him from the dead. Sometimes we feel stiff, dead, unable to go on. Jesus, the life-giver, full of compassion calls us out. Allow Him to put His arm around you and tell you it’s okay. Let Him restore your life. And if you mess up a game, He’ll understand that it could’ve been the pants.
God Bless!
Sam

Ms. International Always in Fashion

Happy Birthday to our treasure

Where it’s always a pleasure

Without measure

To see her passion

For color and fashion!

We thank God for our youngest!
Love ya,
Papi & Mami

Happy 3rd Birthday!

You’ve Won!!

We’ve all heard stories of people winning lotteries, or striking gold, striking it rich, or discovering treasures. Excitement and triumph lie at the door of their hearts. Plans and dreams begin to formulate. People sweat, faint, and get jittery upon their instant-change of life.
Sometime last year, Spanx founder, Sara Blakely, sold a majority stake in her shapewear company for a cool 1.2 billion. She gifted each of her 750 workers two round trip tickets to anywhere in the world plus $10,000 each in spending money! Now that’s a boss!
For now, imagine this scene:
You’ve been contacted with news of treasures or funds you’ll be receiving. You go on public TV and a gigantic check is being held for you. It’s temporarily covered. The host begins unveiling it right-to-left. You see zeroes, commas, more zeroes. You begin sweating as you see more commas and zeroes. As the unveiling continues at snail pace, you’re beside yourself now praising God for those Depends you’re wearing! After six commas, your friends are holding you up. Finally, the host says, “Are you R-E-A-D-Y??!!!” You howl and grunt and beat your chest as you cry, “G-I-V-E- I-T T-O- M-E!!!” Ever-so-slowly the blanket is completely withdrawn and as your jaw drops, your pants want to join it too. You stand in shock and disbelief! The reality of your riches sends you to your knees! Numbers come to mind-your lawyer’s, as reality sets in…the final-revealed digits are more zeroes.
That’s right, you won nothing, zilch, nada!
That’s life. Yet, many biblical characters actually opted for blank checks. They were offered houses, positions, more money than they could count; opportunities beyond the dreams of many, yet they gave them all up for a blank check-directly from God.
What does a blank check from God even look like? It’s the type of check that says, “I prefer to pass on these goodies including worldly recognition and be paid directly by God.” When we do things like give to charities or to benefits and receive, or demand recognition, Jesus says we have earned our rewards before men. However, when we get zilch for our works on earth, God shall reward us and exalt us in His presence.
Abraham was such a man. He obeyed God, left his home and walked to a city to do God’s will knowing the city was in heaven and that his reward for obedience would come in heaven by God’s own hands.
Granted, it’s not easy to walk this type of road. Were it, everyone would be on it. No, it’s a walk of faith. It’s taking steps without seeing where you’re going but knowing that when you reach the end or desired spot, God will be there to greet you and to reward you. In heaven, God, the Ultimate Boss will reward His faithful followers far beyond what we can imagine; far beyond the zeroes printed on that check. And when He does, those Depends might come in handy-were it not for the fact we won’t need them in heaven!
So, where are your riches? Have you dreamt and designed your blank check should you win? Have you prepared a speech? Save it. Because before God we’ll be at a loss for words. Tears of joy will say it all.
God Bless!
Sam

Kung-Fu Fighting

The Year was 1966 and Nels and I used to soak up every TV episode of Batman & Robin. We emulated them in our playtime. We now had villains, plots, and strategies to work with. But on September 28, of that year, during a two-part episode called, “The Spell of Tut,” The Green Hornet & Kato were featured, and they changed our Batman & Robin ways forever! Kato was a young Bruce Lee, and in that episode, Nels and I felt that the Cape Crusaders and the Dynamic Duo were whooped! They had met their match! We were so disappointed, but at the same time, thrilled at who did it!! We couldn’t wait for the following Thursday to see what would happen!
Shortly thereafter, The Green Hornet’s show went on the air. Suddenly, there was a craze. Everyone was fighting Kung-Fu or Karate. My older brother, Vincent practiced with us as did my sister-in-law, Winnie. Outside, kicks were flying high as the fever was all over us! Everyone caught it! But, like other fads, in a few years, we outgrew it all, until…

Five years later, Bruce Lee was everywhere in the US with his movie, Fist of Fury. Now, there were Karate chuck sticks along with the sounds of WAH…and YAO, and HA-CHAO, HI-JAH! To top that off, Jamaican singer, Carl Douglas, brought us in 1974, the Disco song, Kung Fu Fighting! We now had: Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh (followed by the whistling flute in Asian music). Great song! Great fighting techniques which renewed interests in ancient cultures and traditions. Soon, Samurai Ninjas were on the scenes with their full-body armors and fighting tactics that would take the world by storm. All are great for fighting and defending oneself against attacks, but fall short of the armor needed if you’re in God’s army.
To fight darkness and principalities, and demons of the underworld, and to fight the Prince of the Powers of the Air (Ephesians 2:2), who works in the children of disobedience, your attire will be different. Ephesians 6:10 tells us: “Stand firm then with [the] belt of truth, buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. In addition to this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. Take the helmet of salvation and the Sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.”
Of course, each item holds profound meanings, thus taking time to write about. But in a nutshell, we need to wear truth around our waist where lots of our strength comes from. We need righteousness right over our heart, and we need to stand firm, for starters. Our weapons to combat evil and the demons roaming this earth must be based on truth, soaked in the blood of Christ with which He defeated the enemy. We cannot chop spiritual beings with regular swords or with Karate chops. We need the helmet of salvation, the helmet that protects our minds-where many of our battles actually take place. Our minds need to be saturated with God’s peace and presence, and the salvation He secured for us at the cross. Taking the Sword of the Spirit (of God) which is His Word, will greatly help us battle opposing forces. And there are millions of forces opposing God’s truth. Satan himself knows God’s word and loves to twist it around to those who don’t actually know it and thereby deceiving them.
Here’s the thing: When you wear God’s armor, to others, you will not look like you’re out looking for a fight; you’ll look normal. However, demons detect God’s presence, and know what you’re capable of in the spiritual realm. They sense God’s presence. Think of the dark and blackish horse, Nazgul’s chase scene on the road in Lord of the Rings as it senses the ring is nearby.
No, you won’t need special sound effects or unusual attire, or even a stance; you won’t even have to sing, “Everybody was Kung fu fighting-Hu,” but you will need to brush up on reading the Word of God and dedicate time to prayer to get direction from God for your life. Now that you’re dressed, (daily), the battles begin.
God Bless!
Sam

The Rock

Wrestlers are easily identifiable by their getup, their antics, and their build. The Rock (Dwayne Johnson), made his debut at about the time that our 16-year-old son grew an affinity towards Wrestle-Mania. We began watching it with him. We watched the good & bad fights, as well as the fake ones too!
Withholding names, there was the “A” team and the “B” team. The wrestler on the “A” team had a sister whose boyfriend was on the “B” team. In order for the boyfriend to provoke her brother, he had a quick plan: “Slap me” he told her. She said, “What?” and he repeated it. She then pretended to slap him hard outside the ring where they were at. Problem was, the microphone was on and everyone heard it! Of course, her outraged brother ‘thought’ his sister was being harassed, and therefore, began punching the wrestler. When the replay was shown, they muted the mic. so that no-one could hear what had really happened! Our poor son! Shattered dreams!
Not so with Jesus. Before a band of men, officers, sent from the chief priests, the Pharisees, scribes, and elders, arrested Him at the garden, He had to be kissed for identification. He was a common man. He wasn’t identifiable because, unlike the religious people and leaders of the day, He didn’t seek His glory or fame. There were no bulging muscles, no outrageous outfits, no crazy acts or displays of authority to identify Him as The Son of God. The best take-way is He didn’t fake anything-not even His death as some believe. He didn’t remove the huge nails, wander off the cross, and stagger into a desert where He fainted and then lived ‘happily’ ever-after. Nope, He endured crucifixion to the end; He resurrected on the third day, and later ascended into heaven! The True Rock won’t shatter your dreams! He’s the real thing!
Wrestling with issues these days?
“For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places” (Ephesians 6:12). Our issues and struggles are not against individuals, agencies, or even “the system;” we’re fighting a spiritual battle in the atmospheric heavens led by Satan and his demonic beings. What do you wear for such battles? No outrageous outfits will do! Stay tune!
God Bless!
Sam

Faux Goods

Wood lovers like the real aspects of wood; its consistency, its natural makeup, its real grain & texture, and its many uses.  When wood isn’t available, or may be too expensive, one can make pieces of other materials look pretty close to the real thing by making faux wood.  From grain to shades, it’s possible to create what is desired, for a fraction of the cost.                   Same thing is possible with fur coats, leather bags, jewelry, and other items.  Faux has many uses.  Of course, it can be used to deceive others where the ‘real-deal’ is required, as in the art world, but instead, reproductions are substituted.                          

The ‘Church’ is in a critical place right now at this point in history. More and more people will see that there are actually two church bodies at play.  It’s been this way for close to two-thousand years.  There’s an accepted church which, although it stands for a few true principles, it isn’t the real church.  The real church is composed of believers world-wide that acknowledge Jesus as its head (Colossians 1:18).  It is known as the body of Christ. That is its title.  It is non-denominational.  It stands on the Word of God, the Truth of Christ’s Word, and is led by the Holy Spirit.  As more and more tensions arise commandeered by Satan, the Church body will continue to stand firm.  However, many members will fall and will even join the traditional Church, and eventually go astray.  Why?

Satan is a counterfeit.  Just as God is triune, Satan also has an unholy trinity (The False Prophet, The Antichrist, and the Beast).  Since He’s the Deceiver and the Father of Lies, he is on an “all-out” campaign to deceive as many as he can.  Those who rarely read God’s Word will be most susceptible to his cunning lies.  Those lies are in place as I write these words!  Hundreds of thousands are falling daily for his deceptions.   Eventually, people will begin to see that they’ve been following the faux church.  It will cost them dearly to take a stand, but it’ll be worth it.  But, how will I know the difference?

The body of Christ stands on the true Word of God.  It doesn’t waiver from issues condemned by God, nor does it give in to “doctrines of demons.” (1Timothy 4:1).  At this very moment, thousands of its members are suffering persecution world-wide.  Members of the faux church scuff at important and often controversial issues, and even embrace them with secular reasoning. 

What will Jesus do?  “And for this cause God shall send them strong delusion, that they should believe a lie: that they all might be dammed who believe not the truth, but had pleasure in unrighteousness” (2Thessalonians 2:11-12).  Come on!  You don’t actually think I’ll fall for some cheap trick, do you?                                                                                               “He performs great signs (awe-inspiring acts) even making fire fall from the sky to the earth, right in the sight of men, and deceived them that dwell on the earth by means of those miracles which he had power to do in the sight of the beast; saying to them that dwell on the earth that they should make an image to the beast, which had the wound by a sword, and did live” (Revelation 13:13,14).                                                   

Jesus refers to Himself as The Good Shepherd and His followers as His sheep. Religious leaders in Jesus’ days did not follow Him. He said, “But you believe me not, because you are not of my sheep, as I said unto you, My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me:  And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand” (John 10:27,28). 

While faux may be good, it isn’t in this case.  Wake up!  Don’t be deceived!  Join the true Church of God, His body!  Sing Psalm 24:9,10: “Lift up your heads, O ye gates! And lift them up, O ancient doors, that the King of glory may come in.  Who is this King of Glory?  The LORD of Host-He is the King of Glory!”

God Bless!
Sam