My life experiences in the good times and in very difficult times will hopefully inspire, encourage, and motivate others to take time to laugh, reflect, and seek God when difficulties in life arise.
Did Christmas catch you by surprise? One minute it was October and the next, December?
Were you shocked at how fast it’s all moving??
Have the ‘holidays’ caught you with your ‘pants down’?
Or perhaps with them up??
Dag, way up???
Don’t despair!!
While the ‘holidays’ might soon run out, Christmas is a year-round celebration. Real Christmas, the birth of Emmanuel-God with us, is here to stay every day, every year. It’s a deeply profound concept. It’s one that never ends. God, the Father, put the greatest gift of all time, His Son Jesus, in a manger to later die not under a tree, but on a tree (Acts 5:30) and thereby demonstrating the greatest love of all.
You’re not the only
one caught off guard!!! The world was
caught in a daze too! You see, expected
on the scene was something like one of today’s celebrities-one strutting his
stuff down the sidewalk with heavy gold chains around his neck wearing the
latest fashions with gold sparkling from his ears, his teeth, and his sandals. The religious leaders and the crowds and mobs
were looking for someone to turn heads.
They wanted to shower him with oohhs & aahhs and fall at his feet
because he was so rich with bling.
Instead, He came so humble; not a home to be born in; not a warm bed to rest on; not a warm, fluffy pillow to lull Him to sleep. He didn’t get the Sky-Blue paint color along the walls; there were no designers scrambling to give Him the best and latest improvements trending at the time. His parents were poor. His vehicle was a donkey. God had chosen to confound the world by showing it what real humility is. By showing it that they didn’t need someone to rescue them from the world but to be rescued from themselves first. They were slaves not just to others (the Romans), but to sin, and needed redemption from it first and foremost.
And yes, He will once again, and very soon confound the world when He takes His very own home forever. Are you looking for the gold-studded king wrapped in bling-bling? If you are, you’re missing the point. He came lowly so he can relate to your circumstances. Though rich, He made Himself poor to understand us; to give us a chance to ‘afford’ Him. He made the way easy for us-just follow Him. You don’t need riches, cars, jewelry, mansions, or social media followers to follow Him. Invite Him into your heart today and you’ll be surprised at how well He can guide your steps. Look to the tree, He’s there. Your name is on the gift others may have overlooked.
TV movies can be a great pastime. One can sit down or curl up with a cup of hot
chocolate or tea and watch as probably 95% of the movies feature the same plot:
a guy and girl end up in love and after swearing they’re not part of a small community,
end up hitching and settling down in a small, layback town where cakes and
cookies are baked, consumed and even given away ‘on the house ’every single day
by the dozens. I wonder how the businesses make any money!
Great movies-sometimes.
Some are more real than others.
The real ones deal with real issues, religious convictions, and less
Santa Clause issues. Other movies, where
Santa reigns and “Anything can happen at Christmas,” are more fantasy than real
life. And so, every problem can be
tackled in a matter of days or weeks.
Seeing Santa and elves and all the decorations can be great entertainment and inspiration. The negative aspect of it all is that Christmas time happens to be the saddest day (season) of the year for many. Problems aren’t solved in a jiffy. The man/woman of your dreams probably evaporated once you awoke. Bills and debts are ever-present. Every day that it snows can be thrilling, especially the first time around and as long as you don’t have to go to work or school, or run errands…or plow it. We all tend to love novelties. We fall in love with images of what could be and how wonderful fairy tales look. Reality can be harsh.
The wonders of Christmas, as far as Christmas lights, garlands, red, silver, gold, and green colors go, is magical. But the harsh reality of the holiday is that real Christmas and its significance is left out in the cold. It gets buried in the snow. It gets forgotten under an avalanche of commercialism.
So many people feel they have nothing at all in their lives that relates to Christmas, yet they like to give or share with others, they like to ‘treat’ others to meals, movies, games, etc. We don’t do those things out of our own nature or because ‘That’s just who I am.’ Those qualities are innate because God put them there. Because He taught us to give; to be generous, etc. In other words, we do have things or ways that relate to the holiday. We are more like God than we sometimes realize.
So then, what’s the big deal with Christmas? Who cares if there’s a Santa in every movie or street corner or not? God says He will not share His glory with anyone (Isaiah 42:8). If Santa pointed everyone to God as being the one who provides or the one who answers prayers, then there would be no problem. However, Santa gets all the attention because he makes everyone happy by magically solving everyone’s problems. The real Gift-Giver, Jesus, came to earth as a gift from God with one purpose: to die and be raised for our sins. In doing so, He defeated the forces of evil.
Make use of this holiday season to give like Santa but most importantly, to give like God and to love like Jesus. Real life-answers come from the Man far beyond the North Pole; From the Man, not in a red suit, but whose red blood was shed to turn your red-crimson/scarlet sins, white as snow and wool (Isaiah 1:18).
It was a cold December morning many years ago when a perfect
gift came into the world. Words like,
“Oh Lordy” were most likely shouted out by my wife shattering the morning
silence. They were not in reference to
the birth of our Lord and Savior, Jesus; nor were they said in anticipation of
the Christmas holiday soon-to-be upon us.
No, they were words meaning, “Hurry up and get me to the
hospital!!” We’re having us a baby
NOW! We caught a taxi and dashed there.
I’m not sure how Joseph felt when Mary brought forth her
newborn. I don’t think the baby wipes
were ready or the milk bottle warm. He
may not have even had a pacifier; I don’t know what they used back then, but
after an 80-100-mile journey, they needed something to quiet baby Jesus. I know I wasn’t ready. This was like, “Taxi! Get over here and step
on it!” Have your coat? Check; Have your
papers? Check; Having contractions? Check, check!! Out the door we went in the cold, dead of
winter.
Now, I’m the type of guy that’s always on the go. I would
like all stores to have revolving doors so I can walk in, grab & pay for my
purchases and head right out in minutes flat.
I’m sure the Lord knew this that morning, cause a few minutes after
arriving and my wife having been whisked off in a rush, as soon as I began to
ask the secretary if…she congratulated me!
I assured her she was confusing me with someone else like maybe the lady
just dropped off. I only wanted to know
if I should leave and take my wife’s coat and return later, or wait for her so
we could head back home. Once again, I was congratulated. I told the lady that I had just dropped off
my wife like three to five minutes earlier.
“yeah, yeah,” the lady said. She
just came in and just as fast gave birth to a healthy daughter, I was told.
I couldn’t believe
it! That was fast! Just the way I wish
the previous two kids would have been born!
I would have wanted to walk up to the desk and said on each occasion, “Here’s
my wife and please hurry; this child is to go.”
I’m sure most men would agree with that.
I’m sure my wife wishes it could have been like that too.
Our daughter was in a rush too. She had my ‘hurry up’ in her genes-and
diapers too! She flew out in a
jiffy. Some crying, some laughter, and
in no time, some jokes!! She’s always
been a clown. She was born with a full
set of hair; kind of like a wig. And even
though she was already past her due-date by a week and was born twelve days
before Christmas, she was our Christmas child.
Like Jesus, she was born at just the right time-God’s appointed time to
bring peace and joy (and laughter) to this world.
Growing up, I remember always wishing for snow during
Christmas and the winters to come. We
rarely had a white Christmas. We did
have several memorable snowstorms. We
enjoyed them all. One of us
guys-on-the-block would hurry to the window and if we saw snow, we’d run back
in and get all dressed for the cold.
Boots, gloves, scarves, etc. went on, and out we’d go. Sometimes, other guys were out too, but if there
was no one, we’d start calling each other, or throwing snowballs at their
windows to get their attention. One of
my last great snowstorms while growing up was around 1979. Parts of our neighborhood was under 18” of
snow while others got up to 24.” We were
ecstatic! I remember running to this
back street where normally there was little traffic and as I turned the corner,
it was a blanket of snow that went up to my knees!!! I ‘ran’ taking slow, huge steps sinking in
with each one. It was just great. I walked back to tell others about it and
soon we were all going mad everywhere enjoying ourselves. Everything had been paralyzed. Trucks and buses were stopped in their
tracks. It looked like a ghost town! One could walk right into a bus or truck
frozen on the road with no one inside! God’s power was marvelous! Tiny dustings
of white powder had accumulated to where it had halted everything!
Either that year or the one before, we also had a great
time. We made two teams. Ours had Georgie, maybe Aaron, and Gil. Gil was the most feared snowball-maker on the
block. We’d watch him take snow and
methodically shape it into a snowball without gloves. We’d watch as he’d compact it more and
more and the water would just drip. Our
faces frozen in fear as saliva trickled down our mouths from the dread of who
would get hit by such a weapon. When
finished, he’d throw one at some 70 mph against the metal pull-down gate across
the street. When a loud bang shattered
the silence, he’d say, “Yep, I think it’s ready.” We all were like, ‘We want
Gil, we want Gil on our side…”
I know
the other team had Edgar, June, and Chicky.
Both teams had crates or buckets
of snowballs. Gil was our snow-making
machine, so he pre-made a batch. On one
occasion, it was like on a TV show where we were walking nearing a corner in
blizzard conditions, just yapping away trying to find the other team to
obliterate them. Suddenly, we reached
the corner unawares, as did the other team with perfect synchronization. Suddenly, both teams let out yelps and yikes
as the crates and buckets flew up in the air as both teams retreated! Then, we all headed back for our ammunition
and began chasing and pummeling each other!
That event was so comical! It was
so classic, so golden, so much a part of who we were. Though, in our late teens, it was so much
fun. It would close an era of ‘The Guys on
the Block.’ It would become the last
snowstorm of our lives together. “To
everything there is a season…” (Ecclesiastes 3:1-8)
A few years later, in 1993 or 94, I once again had fun in a
snowstorm but this time with kids of my own.
We’d go to our large backyard and we’d be the only ones there. The kids would ride on me like I was a horsey
and we’d plow into the snow. The snowy,
blizzard conditions kept the cowardly kids-and grownups inside, so we had all
the space in the world just for us. Our
kids ran and jumped and went on the slide and see-saw. They braved the snow as it bit into their
faces. They threw themselves ‘dead’ flat
on their backs on the ground and laid there very still feeling the snow just
falling on their faces as they listened to the howling winds. Now and then, puffs of ‘smoke’ came out
through their nostrils as they breathed heavily from the excitement. They were ‘one’ with the snow. It was so much fun to lie there having no
worries. There was no one around and they
were just savoring the moment. They were taking in the silence and observing
the grandness of everything around yet feeling so small in the vast open space. Behind closed windows, their mom watched and
laughed before making hot chocolate for us.
There’s a silence when a blizzard is taking place. Aside from the (possible) howling wind,
there’s no noise, no cars or trucks going by; just a calming stillness
surrounding you, maybe interrupted by your own laughter or your own
thoughts. In the stillness, God is there
and we can feel him so close to us.
Winter is almost here. You can
cuddle in a warm blanket when the storms come.
You can watch the flurries begin to cascade down the skies. You can warm by a crackling fire as the flurries
now-turned-to- snow storms the windows of your soul. You can be a kid again and head outside-even
if only in your thoughts. Throw yourself
in the snow; feel your heavy breathing, listen to the silence enveloping
you. God’s whisper is louder than
ever. The whirlwind is calling your
name; it’s speaking to your heart. It’s
drawing you into His presence.
The fire of the Holy Spirit like a crackling fire can warm a
cold and/or lost soul; His fire’s purpose is to bring you into that stillness
and make you ‘one’ with Him.
In Job 38:22, God asks, “Have you entered into the treasures of the snow?” Go ahead and enjoy His treasures. Invite Him in to your life. Afterall, He’s enjoyed watching you from the windows of heaven. Enjoy the spell- bounding glamour of a snowstorm. Every season has a purpose as well as its own beauty. Reflect on the beauty of winter.
Afterwards, sneak
inside and enjoy a cup of hot chocolate together; then crash…
All His life He was considered a radical. People were used to doing things a particular
way, but He taught them they could actually be done differently. Jesus was a misunderstood man. People knew if someone hurt you, you should
hurt them back. If someone slapped you,
slap them right back. You got a black
eye? Give him one too. It made sense.
It was an eye for an eye. But
Jesus taught differently: If someone slapped you, turn the other cheek; in
other words, say, “Uh, you missed this side.”
Jesus wants us to go as far as to give a cup of water or a plate of food
to those who hurt us-to our enemies (Matthew 5:44).
In one word, Radical, is what He expects us to be.
Most of us are accustomed to doing things our own way until
we learn a new way. However, more times
than not, we refuse to learn a new way. Jesus
tells us to greet those we don’t know; to invite to feasts those who can’t
invite us back to their place. Again, be
radical. This is a lesson I’ve learned
throughout the years. For some twenty
years we’ve invited lots of friends and family over for various occasions, yet,
they hardly ever show up. On two
instances, after settling on a date and time for 2-3 days later, my wife has
cooked galore with roasted pork and rice and baked cakes only to have no one
show up. When confronted about the
situation in each case, the parties involved reacted with either, “I don’t know
what you’re talking about,” and, “I forgot.” That led us to stop inviting
people over.
Our only invitation is for Thanksgiving and 2-3 times in the
past we also had a Christmas dinner. We
announce it to our church and the members take it upon themselves to bring
those they find along the way (Luke 14:12, 13). God knows who needs to be here and so He sets
it up so those that would otherwise be alone, can fellowship with others and
also enjoy a great, hot meal.
In Jesus’ days, He told of a parable where people were
invited to a great feast but when it was time to show up, one by one they began
to make excuses about attending. Jesus
said that those people were not worthy of being at the party. So, He had His servants go out to the highways
and byways and invite the poor and lonely ones (Luke 14:16-24). That’s how it is with God’s Kingdom. So many people have excuses as to why they
shouldn’t give their lives to Christ, even when they feel His tug at their
hearts. In essence, they’re telling Him,
they’re not worthy to be there; they’ve got better and more important things to
do. When it’s too late, they’ll be
crying for a second chance, but it’ll be beyond reach.
Are you one of those invited to God’s Kingdom? It’ll be much more than turkey, pork, or ham and more than varieties of cakes and pies. We’re looking at eternal life, eternal fellowship with God Himself and Jesus. A perpetual feast! There will be no more pain or sickness or evil to deal with. Death will be gone forever. We’ll never age, and no more wrinkles!!!